Break the Misconceptions about Self and Sex

"We all have issues in our tissues." I urge you to go easy on yourself. I know that I have to work extra hard and be mindful to do this as well, as it is so very simple to obsess over perfection. We all want to be the best because who wants to be second for anything? But this thinking is how we have been conditioned, brainwashed, and manipulated/trained by our society, our culture, and in many of our cases, our upbringing, to have unhealthy views about ourselves and sex.
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I invite you to examine and reflect on this. There is nothing wrong in wanting to do our best and give our best and that will make us the best in whatever we plan to do, but not to the point of exhaustion or overexertion. The problem is, when we are constantly comparing ourselves to others, a condition I call and diagnose as Comparivitis, that is when we are never enough, will never be enough and then get caught up in the cycle of judgment, berating ourselves, being unnecessarily hard on ourselves, and finally making ourselves miserable. This is not who we were meant to be. This is not who we are. We are divine goddesses, creatures of love, full of compassion, strength, and wisdom. How can we share our brilliance with others when we constantly try to dim and diminish our own light, ourselves, with the mindless monkey chatter that goes on within us? How do we hit the pause, and finally the stop, button on being rude and unkind to ourselves, the people we love, and finally our universe?
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Healthy Self = Heal Thy Self!

“Be the Change You Wish to See in the World” Mahatma Gandhi 

Break the Misconceptions about Self and Sex

We are on a mission of healing, communication, compassion, connection, consent/acquiescence, confidence, and empowerment to finally claim and enjoy what is rightfully ours; the right to the power and permission of absolute bliss; to be able to journey without judgment and fear; to delight in ecstasy and euphoria; to be and let be!
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To have our journey full of its adventures, trials and tribulations transcend towards and to nirvana, towards moksha, the state of enlightenment, peace, and happiness.
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Communion, in my humble viewpoint, is union with communication and compassion.
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We begin with ourselves. With loving, accepting, forgiving, and not judging ourselves. Only by doing that can we extend that courtesy and kindness to others. Like Mother Teresa quoted wisely, "If we judge, we don't have time to love." Therefore, let us love ourselves and each other to create an amazing universe of love, kindness, positivity, and opportunity. Like the great minds, Mahatma Gandhiji and Leo Tolstoy said, "Be the change you want to see in this world" and "Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing themselves."
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Here, I would like to take a moment to note that there truly is no us and others. We are all one. We are all connected to each other and to the divine as we are all energy beings. Physics has proven that energy cannot be created nor destroyed, just converted from one form to another.

It truly is a journey and a process as this does not happen overnight, but with mindfulness, patience, compassion, and love, we can most certainly shine our light and change our thinking to change our lives. We are the captains of our souls and the masters and goddesses of our destiny.
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I humbly invite you on this beautiful journey.

Communication, Connection, Compassion.
Courage, Confidence, Creative/Calm
Confidentiality, Consent, Clemency

What I am looking to create in my Gods & Goddesses is a positive, empowering, lasting transformation that enables them to shine brighter, no matter what. I am looking to always be there for them and to create everlasting relationships.

Thank You for considering ZenXuality!